Is there a bigger lie?

[ND66]

Is there a bigger lie? - m4w
"I just want to meet a nice guy"

This is an actual posting on Craigslist Chicago, check it out.
For a some of you it will sound so familiar…. .
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EDIT: the topic gets altered so it's better to see the search on *lie* or *lies*.
There are few posts that don't belong to this topic.

here:

http://chicago.craigslist.org/cgi-bin/search?areaID=11&subAreaID=0&query=*+lie*&catAbbreviation=mis&minAsk=min&maxAsk=max

or here:

http://chicago.craigslist.org/cgi-bin/search?areaID=11&subAreaID=0&query=*lies*&catAbbreviation=mis&minAsk=min&maxAsk=max

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[Mehen]

yeah, I have had a few women say that to me, all the while I am thinking "what about the nice guy that is sitting here listening to you complain about all this shit?" - I guess that Friends Zone article pertains to me...

[lowlifecat]

Mehen> try this next time; say: "You wouldn't know a nice guy if he got up and left." then get up and leave.

[Mehen]

Will do.

[KvHagedorn]

Mehen> try this next time; say: "You wouldn't know a nice guy if he got up and left." then get up and leave.

ROFL.. good one.. someone will probably steal that and put it in a romantic comedy.

[lowlifecat]

Mehen> please note that this is unlikely to get you laid but if you find youself in that situation then you got nothing to loose.

the last time i tried this line the woman got up followed me (i think i pissed her off). Told her i was sick of women complaining about not finding 'nice guys' then giving the "you're a nice guy but..." speech. if she was serious about finding a 'nice guy' then she'd better start getting serious. Thank you and goodbye.

[Fluff]

I don't think you pissed her off at all. She probably followed you because she thought she was actually going to be missing out on something.

[lowlifecat]

possibly, relationship with her is still a work in progress. she's a piece of work herself.

at least she knows that if she doesn't put any effort into "us" then i'm quite content to ignore her.. for months sometimes.

[Fluff]

Just remembering what Chris Rock's response to when a girl said that she wants to be friends....

[ND66]

I don't think you pissed her off at all. She probably followed you because she thought she was actually going to be missing out on something.

…or she was just soooo deep in her thoughts, she did not understand what lowlifecat just said ...... or just plain stupid.

If she thought she was missing out on something, she’d jump up with the scream “wait” or something like that.

I’m sure lowlifecat is capable of recognizing the difference between pissed off or missing out something mood.


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[Fluff]

Fluff, what does Chris say?

"i want to be the friend thats f*cking you in the a*s ... b*tch"

Well along those lines..

[ND66]

..."but we can still be friends"...

I think we all know the translation of this one...

Got to love this one ...

[lowlifecat]

Pissing people off is a talent that doesn't require much effort on my part

On a serious note. My issues with this woman are enough to get me to start my own venting thread!

I could really use a lot of advice as things have been going on for the past 3 almost 4 yeArs and we are still at the same semi-dating stage.

People don't follow their own advice very well. I should just walk away and stay that way this time... Again.

[cjolley]

"I just want to meet a nice guy"
This is not very complex if you know what the girl is too ashamed to say.
The only part of it that is a lie is the "I just"

Here is what is really going on:
"I want to want to meet a nice guy, but I don't."

Think about that and you will understand her sad situation.
And yours.

[VJ]

Here is what is really going on:
"I want to want to meet a nice guy, but I don't."

That is deep, man...

(and most likely the best explanation on this topic I have seen )


Jörg